You must get lost before you can find yourself

You are suffering because your journey of transformation has begun.

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Sevil Rahnama Sevil Rahnama, RP Registered Psychotherapist · CRPO #15112 Toronto · in person & online
Depth-oriented therapy for high-functioning professionals Neuroscience background IFS & psychodynamic

Does this sound familiar?

You look like you're holding it together

On the outside, you're capable, accomplished, the person everyone relies on. On the inside, it can feel like a very different story.

  • Your mind won't switch off, even when everything looks fine.
  • You hold yourself to a standard nothing ever quite meets.
  • You're exhausted from performing, achieving, and keeping it all together.
  • You feel disconnected from yourself, unsure who you are underneath the roles.
  • You've tried to think your way out of it, and it keeps coming back.

You can keep white-knuckling it for another year, or you can get to the root of what's driving it. That is the work I do. IFS helps you understand the parts of you beneath the pattern, so you can stop managing yourself and start feeling like yourself again.

A stone path winding through a green mountain valley

Anxiety, depression, loneliness, addiction, or feeling stuck often rise from deep wounds your younger self once hid to survive.

As children, we learn to protect our most tender parts. We build layers of strength and silence, meant to keep the world from touching what already hurts. They hold us, until life's storms reveal their edges. In trying to stay safe, we add more and more armour, but what once helped us endure eventually distances us from others, and from ourselves.

Your strength has never lived in the armour. It lives in the quiet, enduring light within you, the self-healing force that has always been waiting to guide you home.

There is nothing wrong with you. It is simply time. Time to turn inward, let old defenses loosen, and step into the person you were always meant to become.

Sevil Rahnama, psychotherapist in Toronto

Hi there, I'm Sevil.

I bring both clinical training and lived understanding to my work. Through my own healing journey, I have come to know something of the pain, fear, courage, and beauty of transformation, and that experience deeply shapes the presence I bring into the therapy room.

I blend Psychodynamic Therapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS) to help you gently explore your inner world. My style is warm, playful, and direct, I'll support you fully, but I won't let your stuck parts run the show. Clients often describe me as warm, playful, intuitive, and real.

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How I can help

Free first meeting

Free · 20–30 minutes

Free first meeting

This free 20–30 minute session is an opportunity for us to meet, explore your needs, and see if we're the right fit for therapy. The session can be followed with a complimentary personalized psychodynamic formulation report outlining insights into your personal journey, key focus areas for therapy, and the best ways to support your growth.

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Individual therapy

In person or virtual

Individual therapy

Individual therapy offers a space using psychodynamic therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and somatic awareness, creating lasting change in how you relate to yourself, others, and your life. We slow things down, listen to the parts of you that have been carrying too much, and work toward greater clarity, inner safety, and self-trust.

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Couples therapy

In person or virtual

Couples therapy

Couples therapy supports you toward clearer communication, deeper understanding, emotional safety, and more meaningful connection. Drawing from psychodynamic therapy, IFS, and somatic awareness, we move beneath surface-level disagreements to better understand the emotions, protective parts, attachment needs, and relational cycles at play.

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Sunlight through a calm forest and lake

How I work

My approach

I blend psychodynamic therapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS) to help you explore your inner world. My style is warm, playful, and direct: I'll support you fully, but I won't let your stuck parts run the show.

Psychodynamic therapy

Understanding your patterns and where they come from.

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Getting to know the parts of you, and what they protect.

IFIO for couples

Intimacy from the Inside Out, an IFS-based couples model.

Somatic & nervous-system-informed

Working with the body, not only talking about it.

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Getting started is simple

How to begin

1

Book a free first meeting

A relaxed 20–30 minutes for us to meet, hear what's bringing you here, and see if we're the right fit.

2

We shape a plan that fits you

Together we make sense of what's really going on beneath the surface and how IFS and depth work can help, at a pace that feels safe.

3

Begin the work

We start getting to the root, not just managing symptoms, so you can feel like yourself again.

Contact me

Whether you're ready to begin or still deciding, you're welcome to write. Tell me a little about what's bringing you here, and I'll be in touch.

Email
contact@srtherapy.ca
Phone
(647) 951-7872
Location
Toronto, ON · in person & virtual
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